Regular readers of this blog would know that at the start of the year I set personal expenditure goals and savings goals and try and keep to those goals. I also measure those goals month to month on my expenditure tracker.
It has been an interesting exercise however I always manage to far exceed what I plan to spend on personal expenditure and I never seem to be able to invest enough as a result. I had thought about what my personal expenses were and I thought I was setting a reasonable limit.
However in last month's expenditure tracker I suddenly realised that I may not have thought about how I spend money in the right way at all. All the financial books and budgeting books you read talk about first budgeting for the essentials and then everything else on top of that becomes a luxury and in this way you can save a significant amount of money.
Then generally define essentials quite narrowly (i.e. those things you absolutely need) and I think, for many of us - this is what causes the problem.
I am going to define 'essential' differently...
From now on...I'm going to define essential as 'those expenses which I need or want to spend in order to maintain my lifestyle'
Purists and those who are very good at living on tight budgets will tell you this is a recipe for disaster...that this way of thinking will get you further and further into debt. However after setting my goals and constantly failing at them even after making some quite dramatic changes (e.g. I stopped eating lunch out almost entirely - I pack a lunch every day and I think quite a lot about big purchases) I realised that I was thinking about it wrong.
All of us have a lifestyle that we like to keep to. For every person it is different - however we all have expenditures which we think are important or that we are unable to change for a particular reason.
It has been an interesting exercise however I always manage to far exceed what I plan to spend on personal expenditure and I never seem to be able to invest enough as a result. I had thought about what my personal expenses were and I thought I was setting a reasonable limit.
However in last month's expenditure tracker I suddenly realised that I may not have thought about how I spend money in the right way at all. All the financial books and budgeting books you read talk about first budgeting for the essentials and then everything else on top of that becomes a luxury and in this way you can save a significant amount of money.
Then generally define essentials quite narrowly (i.e. those things you absolutely need) and I think, for many of us - this is what causes the problem.
I am going to define 'essential' differently...
From now on...I'm going to define essential as 'those expenses which I need or want to spend in order to maintain my lifestyle'
Purists and those who are very good at living on tight budgets will tell you this is a recipe for disaster...that this way of thinking will get you further and further into debt. However after setting my goals and constantly failing at them even after making some quite dramatic changes (e.g. I stopped eating lunch out almost entirely - I pack a lunch every day and I think quite a lot about big purchases) I realised that I was thinking about it wrong.
All of us have a lifestyle that we like to keep to. For every person it is different - however we all have expenditures which we think are important or that we are unable to change for a particular reason.
- For example - I spend ~$100 a month on gym membership which is much higher than I could get it for...but I know what I'm like and if my gym was not right next to work I would never go and it would be an even bigger waste of money
If, like me, you have tried setting a budget and wonder why you keep busting through even through it may be because you have a whole heap of expenditures which you have to make every month which you don't even think about.
Go through the exercise...you may be surprised
I was genuinely surprised at how much I spend before I even get to things like entertainment, holidays and other truly discretionary items. I did a quick calculation and each month I spend:
- $1,150 on living expenses including rent, a very cheap mobile plan, dry cleaning and groceries
- $140 on donations (which I refuse to cut back on)
- $430 on