Around Valentines Day this year I set out my plan to save for a ring and ultimately marriage. I had heard how much marriage costs and I didn't want to have any sort of bill shock when the inevitable expenses actually came around so I decided to spread some of the expenditure associated with marriage.
My original plan called for $60,000 in total savings:
- $10,000 for the engagement ring and proposal
- $30,000 for the wedding itself
- $20,000 for the honeymoon
I'm glad to say that the first part is done and dusted. I bought the engagement ring (for $10,000), got the GST back on the ring when I went overseas (-$909) and then spent about $1,500 on the proposal itself. I was about $600 over budget but in the grand scheme of things I'm not too worried about that.
However, being proposed and being able to talk about the wedding with my fiancée has helped clarify what we want to spend and how much we're probably going to need for the wedding.
The new budget is $10,000 higher than the old budget...and the timeline is shorter
Spreading expenses over a particular time requires you to know 2 variables:
- How much are you going to spend?
- When are you going to need to spend it?
I had originally forecast $30,000 for an August wedding in 2015 however once my fiancée and I sat down and did the numbers we realised that we would probably need to spend more and save it in less time.
The wedding is going to be ~$10,000 more than I originally forecast...
The wedding is going to be more expensive than I originally forecast for 2 reasons
- I under-estimated how many people we had to invite.
- I originally did the calculations on a wedding for ~120 people however when we actually listed how many people we wanted to invite the list turned out to be more like 150
- There are some significant costs I didn't originally think about
- When I first budgeted for the wedding I thought about the costs that most people incur such as the reception, outfits, church, flowers etc. etc. and I gained these lists of expenses from online forums and calculators
- However there are some costs which you will incur that are specific to your wedding. In our case we are going to have to pay for the flights and accommodation of some very close family members that we want to be at the wedding but who genuinely can't afford to be there if we didn't help them out. I am more than happy to spend this money but it does add up very quickly
...and is also likely to be a month earlier than forecast
I had originally forecast an August wedding and had set my savings plan up accordingly. However when we worked out when we actually wanted to get married we realised that we were actually looking at early July (due to my work commitments in August).
This effectively reduced our time to save for the wedding by 2 months. This may not seem like a bit reduction however a few factors meant that it has having a far larger impact than I first imagined:
- I had originally structured my savings plan so that I was paying more the closer I got to the wedding
- Originally I was paying